Grooms Checklist Calendar
9-12 Months before the Wedding
- Buy the engagement ring, and arrange for a special presentation.
- Discuss the wedding date and budget with your fiancée.
- Choose your best man and ushers. (one usher per 50 guests)
- Select your wedding rings together.
- Plan the honeymoon.
- Help with the guest list.
6-9 Months before the Wedding
- Join your fiancée as she registers your gift preferences at a registry.
- Together with your fiancée, select formal wear for you and your groomsmen.
3-6 Months before the Wedding
- Check the requirements for blood tests and the marriage license.
- Finalize honeymoon plans: get a passport or visa if needed.
2-3 Months before the Wedding
- Start addressing your share of the wedding invitations.
- Reserve your wedding attire.
- Plan and make reservations for the rehearsal dinner. (The groom's family usually hosts this event.)
- Meet with the florist. (The groom traditionally pays for the bride's bouquet, all corsages and boutonnieres.)
6-8 Weeks before the Wedding
- Choose gifts for groomsmen.
- Purchase a wedding gift for your bride.
- Purchase a marriage license with fiancée and witnesses. (It's the groom's job to check on all details and requirements.)
- Adjust insurance policies to reflect new marital status.
- Pick up wedding rings.
2 Weeks before the Wedding
- Check on honeymoon reservations and tickets.
- Purchase traveler's checks if needed.
- Arrange to move belongings to your new home (after you return from your honeymoon).
1 Week before the Wedding
- Give your marriage license and officiating person's fee to the best man.
- Present groomsmen's gifts at rehearsal dinner.
The Day of the Wedding
- Give wedding rings to the best man.
- Be sure travel tickets are with your change of clothes.
- Be sure both of you sign the wedding certificate and put it in a safe place.